am with my boy friend for a year and 2 months now, everything is great, we have plans for future, mutual understanding, mutual support...
I posted a question on group therapy about my bf having a heart disease before, and i still can't know how to deal with this situationa month ago, he told me he has a chronical heart disease caused by some feverwhen he was achild, and said that is the reason why he had to rest and can't -sometimes- maintain his erection, and that's the reason why i can hear his heart beating strongly and he suffers to take a breath
i was shocked, i was a virgin and he was my 1st sex partner, that's why i couldn't see those signs, i thought when he couldn't keep in the mode that i turn him off, that why i was embarrassed to ask him, what really made me astonished that we can do it 3-4times a day, once or twice a week, yes he might take a rest or a nap, or suffer and sweat alot, but finally it is amazing, and oddly enough that contributed in deepening the intemacy between us; that he- when inside me (ehmm) and feel tired he doesn't pull out and sleep on the side of the bed, instead he sleep on me, or i am the one who sleeps on him and wakes up to find out he's having sex with me! Amazing
I love him sooooooooo much, and every time i say we must be reasonable and do it like twiceinstead of 3 or 4 times, he said we only meet once or twice every 2 weeks, and we have sex once of those times, and this problem will solved when we live together
what can i do, i cant imagine i may cause him any harm
Please help me!